A break up or divorce is always hard to endure, especially when betrayal occured! It is especially hard on the innocent children who are involved and the confusion that impales them.
Sometimes the pain of betrayal or loneliness can be overwhelming and blinding to the couple who are experiencing it, making it difficult for them to see clear solutions for a positive outcome. The pain can make people unintentionally selfish to what the other person or their children are feeling and what they are going through!
I wish we would have had guidance like this when our pain was too blinding to see, when the hurt had brought us to our knees! How things would have been different!
I love how this post puts these feelings into a perspective of faith. Please read the post, Mommy, do you still love daddy?
•1 Corinthians 13:1-3•
If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.
Please help heal this pain I am enduring! Guide me by faith and by forgiveness. Make me wise to the hurt of others and help me to be healing. Help me to be patient as I wait for your healing and faithful as I wait for your plan to unravel.
Lord, help me to lead my children by the example of your love!
Blessings & love,